Your ideas about how a relationship should look might not align with reality as the sun in idealistic Jupiter clashes with devoted Juno. Having to engage in the daily tending that a commitment requires might not be what you had in mind. Some rams are all in for the thrill of the chase. It’s a different situation altogether when you finally win over the person you were after. If settling down into a routine isn’t your thing, be upfront about it. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be free to do as you please. However, you can’t expect your partner to keep the home fires burning while you’re out doing your thing.